Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Contemplating Divorce?

You are not alone. Over 55% of first-time marriages in the United States result in divorce and over 70% of second-time marriages also end in divorce.

Since you are contemplating divorce it is very important that your get a good understanding of what you may experience. You do not want to be unprepared or uneducated before making this life changing decision. Please keep in mind that the more amicable your relationship is prior to and/or during your divorce the more likely you will lessen the emotional and financial burdens caused by ending your marriage.

If this is the second time you have been through the divorce process, you should be able to draw on your past experiences from the first go around. The level of stress, in the majority of cases, suffered on the second time around is not nearly as great as the first.

All marriages have good and bad times. Marriage is an emotional roller coaster and this is a reality of all relationships. But, by becoming married you assume these conditions and those responsibilities that go with it. Wedding vows state for better for worse, for richer for poor ... Unfortunately, there are many individuals, in those times of bad, who decide to jump ship and abandon the relationship. The bottom line is, they do not want or desire to ride in rough seas.
Is there hope for your marriage? Yes. Every marriage has hope! Do you really despise your spouse that much that you want a divorce? If you want to give it another shot, then take a good look at yourself, your spouse and your marriage and try to figure out exactly what is wrong. Is it financial pressure? Or is it a number of minor problems that seem to be adding up? There are many steps you can take to improve your marriage, but you need to stop, evaluate, and take a strong look at the problems that exist. Once your problems are identified address them slowly one by one.

However, there are times when you just can't move on and divorce is the only option. If this is the case please call Jason C. Foulger at the Foulger Law Group at 801-615-1951.  Jason Has helped hundreds of people resolve there marital discourse. Please call now for a free consultation.

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